I sometimes offend people because I tell it like it is, and I can get a little too blunt. Most of the time I watch myself because I hate it when people are way too forward with me, it really depends on some people moods... but other times, I go for it anyway because what needs to be said needs to be said.

I am willing to be forward when...

Someone I love's well-being is on the line.

I have been clear about something, and a person doesn't get the hint that they're being obnoxious.

Someone I love is making stupid decisions and they need someone who isn't just going to turn a blind eye.

Usually if I find out that I have hurt someone's feelings unintentionally, I feel like a jerk and I want to instantly make it better. In the afore mentioned instances, I am willing to hurt someone's feelings (in a loving way) because something more valuable is on the line and I will not be made to feel guilty about protecting something that's precious to me. Whether it's protecting a person I love, myself, or trying to protect a person from themselves.

I know that I am talking in generalities, but in every instance, there is a person or situation that it applies to in my life. There are some things that just don't need to be broadcasted all over the internet.